While I'm ever-so-quietly not blogging, anyone care to weigh in on this l'il debate... here and here?
Sure, I'm a racist, and misogyny doesn't exist, but maybe you can help shed some further light on these topics nonetheless.
Thanks,
VL
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Maybe he didn't see the same guy's sign where he said he wished Hillary had married OJ. Not that that, of course, would prove anyone hates women. Because I'm sure he was only kidding and you know women have no senses of humor.
I don't know why so many alleged lefties feel the need to deny misogyny and sexism. I certainly don't deny racism. Sure, I deny that most Hillary voters are racist, but that's not the same thing as denying racism or even that some people aren't and won't vote for Obama because he's black. Of course, some people, even some democrats, won't vote for him because of that reason. Just as some won't vote for Hillary because she's a woman.
Whether Hillary wins or not, this has been one educational election. Most of what I've learned has been extremely depressing, but that doesn't make it any less necessary to know. Because it's easy for even us feminists to forget there are still a lot of people out there who hate women and even more willing to cover for them.
"Do what you feel in your heart to be right -- for you'll be criticized anyway. You'll be damned if you do, and damned if you don't. " - Eleanor Roosevelt
How much is misogyny, and how much is CDS
manifesting itself as misogyny?
I think a lot of the attacks on Hillary are just plain old ClintonHate taking the form of sexist attacks because it is still socially permissible to do so.
OTOH - Attacks on Obama that take the form of racism are not permissible, at least not on the left.
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But the CDS Aimed At Hillary
has always had misogynistic underpinnings going back to Arkansas and her refusal to take Bill's name.
"Do what you feel in your heart to be right -- for you'll be criticized anyway. You'll be damned if you do, and damned if you don't. " - Eleanor Roosevelt
Oh, there's plenty of real misogyny in there too
and at some point who cares which is which?
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Painful lessons
Check this out:
For one thing, the DNC is wrong; AAs of all groups are the highest in wanting Hillary on a joint ticket. Granted, as VP, but that hardly argues for the deep antagonism needed to get them to sit this one out. For another, I'm betting, although from purely anecdotal evidence, that the DNC has fund-raising issues, and that perhaps the campaign to re-register as an Independent, and send you torn-up party registration to the DNC, might be having its effect.
Now, this article is framed in the post mortem mode, which is the only genre in which discussion of the Obama Movement's misogyny and manipulation of Clinton hatred is permissible, but I don't accept that the race is over, so I'm happy that the shift in narrative permits a little truth to emerge from the wave of truthiness.
[x] Any (D) in the general. [ ] ?????. [ ] Any mullah-sucking billionaire-teabagging torture-loving pus-encrusted spawn of Cthulhu, bless his (R) heart.
"First they ignore you, then they ridicule you, then they fight you, then you win." -- Mahatma Gandhi
I'm a typical white guy
so I can't speak for women or minorities, but I'm sensing a very real groundswell reaction to this campaign from women.
The intensity of feeling and the level of activity is just getting started. The ladies might be two steps behind but they are gaining fast and are not ready to quit.(or make nice)
To paraphrase Admiral Yamamoto:
"I fear that all we have done is to awaken a sleeping giant and fill her with a terrible resolve."
This summer could be very interesting.
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That's the one good thing about the current narrative
With teh evil Clinton supposedly vanquished, the media is willing to cover how angry many women are with the party, which hopefully someone is listening to and doing the math. You know, I understand the Math is very important in some parts of the party. Well, here's some - no democrat gets elected without women voters. Not as dog catcher, not as mayor, not as president. No women, no win.
"Do what you feel in your heart to be right -- for you'll be criticized anyway. You'll be damned if you do, and damned if you don't. " - Eleanor Roosevelt
As Bob Marley did not sing...
("No women, no win...")
[x] Any (D) in the general. [ ] ?????. [ ] Any mullah-sucking billionaire-teabagging torture-loving pus-encrusted spawn of Cthulhu, bless his (R) heart.
"First they ignore you, then they ridicule you, then they fight you, then you win." -- Mahatma Gandhi
I couldn't say it any better than vastleft if I tried
See vastleft's 3PM reply comment…here.
Of course, if it had been Hillary
She would've gotten it done 12 hours earlier.
VL, while I appreciate your passion
and I have no problem debating you, this is dishonest:
Sure, I’m a racist, and misogyny doesn’t exist
At least, if you're attributing that to me in any fashion.
We can continue a discussion, but not like that, I'm afraid. That kind of rhetoric doesn't help either candidate or their position and supporters.
In the sentence
Before the quotes from VL you attributed, you called these things a "hate fest".
Then you said that the Obama supporters were nicer and more clear headed than Clinton supporters, neglecting to post any claim of misogyny towards Clinton.
I think the way VL summed it up works.
Bill Clinton for First Dude!!!
He who will not reason is a bigot; he who cannot is a fool; and he who dares not is a slave.
- Sir William Drummond
One problem here...
can be summed up in the sig I developed over at DK when I still read it, where I tried to say what would be said to me before it was actually said:
Like in the old Stan Mack's Real Life Funnies, "All dialog guaranteed verbatim," and not once, or twice, or a few times, but over and over and over and over and over and over again on a mass, indeed "movement," basis. And that's not even talking about leveraging all the Clinton hate memes from the impeachment saga. I've been online for a good long time, and I've never experienced anything like the intensity or the repetition. All of this taking place while the reasonable Obama supporters, of whom, surely, there must be many on Kos, did nothing to stop it -- leading me to conclude that, pragmatically, they welcomed it, because they thought it was good for their candidate.
There's a lot of toothpaste to get back in the tube, I would say. And the current Obama "nice 'em to death" offensive is obviously purely tactical, so I doubt it will help.
Same deal with the olive branch posts from Sadly No, where at least one of the comment threads rapidly evolved into a "lambert is an asshole" discussion. I don't take it personally -- heck, they could be right -- but again, I'm not sure how the toothpaste gets back in the tube with that as a basis for discussion.
Still, all this said, Steve, now you can appreciate why my reading of "Sure, I’m a racist, and misogyny doesn’t exist" is an ironic distillation of OFB
talking points, rather than being directed at a rational Obama supporter such as yourself [no irony!].
Cf. Hosea 8:7 .
[x] Any (D) in the general. [ ] ?????. [ ] Any mullah-sucking billionaire-teabagging torture-loving pus-encrusted spawn of Cthulhu, bless his (R) heart.
"First they ignore you, then they ridicule you, then they fight you, then you win." -- Mahatma Gandhi
Steve, you have repeatedly...
... claimed that I'm committing "hate speech," and you've also repeatedly failed to address my rebuttals to same.
Perhaps you meant "hate speech" toward Obama in a totally non-racial kind of way, in which case I apologize for assuming you were intimating that I was a racist, and that I'm instead some other kind of presumably more wholesome kind of hate-speaker.
You must be a racist
because you don't
worshipsupport The One.Q.E.D.
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I don't think they want a discussion, they want a conversion
(Quoting myself from comments elsewhere) "I’m particularly offended by carpetbaggers (in my case, people who moved here from cities in other states, to live out their fantasy life in Idaho) telling me I am racist and uneducated (”you locals”) and that I must expiate the sins of the nation (slavery) by voting for Obama.
My Swedish immigrant grandparents were railroad workers, not privileged landowners. My mother was the first person in our family to go to college. I’m a farmer (with a master’s degree in fine arts, take that, creative classists).
I don’t feel it is my responsibility to give up Social Security, Roe V Wade and universal health care so these “wish I had been a hippie” guys with 401k’s can deal with white guilt, or feel hip and young. If Obama were a strong fighter for labor, healthcare, equal rights for all, a true safety net for the elderly and sick, or if he had a stronger track record than being a friend of Oprah’s, I would give him a 2nd look.
But that he’s not, that he has this weird obsession with religion (we should make nice with Evangelicals—No, wait! religion is the opiate of the bitter!–no, wait, God called me to be president!), and that he is friends with a guy who thinks it’s great publicity to be photographed stomping on the flag—-I think Obama’s an opportunist who would sell out Democratic ideals in a heartbeat."
In turning over in my mind the depth of their need to convert me, I am reminded of married friends who try to get me to marry, Christian friends who are alarmed at my aversion to human sacrifice (Communion), potheads who tell me weed couldn't possibly be bad for you because it is herbal, neighbors who think I should let them farm my land since they are men, and meat eaters who tell me my being a vegetarian won't bring down the beef industry.
I think they are really trying to convince themselves, and are made uneasy because I don't shore up their thinking.
Here's a newsflash: women don't exist as a raw resource for or to validate men, the democratic party or anyone else. We actually exist as individuals. We will vote accordingly, without guilt, no matter how inconvenient to their wants.
Elliot Lake
totally--
i've read in some places that one reason women aren't seen or respected as a "bloc" or valid "group" is that there hasn't and still isn't solidarity and a strong universal pushback when this kind of shit comes up (because "women" is too giant/diverse a group?)--when other groups get shit on (blacks, jews, hispanics, etc), there aren't members of that group publicly dismissing the accusations and attacking the ones accusing the way there are always women doing--and the media usually encourages that sort of pushback from women.
Like, when Al Sharpton makes a big deal out of some racist horror like Jena or a cop shooting or something, most African-Americans don't rush to attack him or deny the stuff happened, etc--but when it's sexism or hateful misogynistic stuff, immediately there are tons of women either denying or attacking the messengers always--i don't know why.
Because too many
Believe that it isn't real(hey, they aren't being beaten-raped-passed over for promition, so obviously it isn't happening), and too many are able to make a profit at hating on women, like Ann Coulter or Phylis Schafly.
And too many believe that women really are inferior to men, and need to be "guided".
Bill Clinton for First Dude!!!
He who will not reason is a bigot; he who cannot is a fool; and he who dares not is a slave.
- Sir William Drummond
Actually, Lambert...
... while your context-setting is quite apropos, in this case, Steve has specifically called me out for "hate speech" against Obama, which I think one might reasonably infer carries at least a hint of being an accusation of racism.
Even if not, Steve has passed on several opportunities to pull back from the slander of accusing me of "hate speech," when I have merely been guilty of having strong and issue based skepticism about a particular Democrat that one is seemingly not allowed to have concerns about.
OK, now I'm officially pissed off
Not at you Lambert, "I love you man!"
Vast left, I, unlike you, will directly respond to your points, and hopefully this won't descend into a fisking fight.
I used the phrase "hate speech" in my original post because your link, selectively quoting Obama, just like the HC advert, seemed intended to convey a distorted meaning of what he actually said in the infamous "Party of Ideas" talk.
In case you forgot, here's the full quote:
Again, your selective quote seemed intended to mislead, and that to me is dishonest, and I called that hate speech. IF you disagree with that, we can discuss it.
I have said, in exchanges with you, that misogyny and racism are both bad, and from you I get back the dishonest quote you left earlier.
I have said that I felt both candidates had done & said things, and had positions, that could be criticised. From you I get your accusation above of me inferring racism toward you. That's faulty logic at best.
I said that just because Hillary had suffered misogyny didn't preclude me from thinking that she wasn't the best candidate, and you didn't respond.
I've tried to be respectful of your positions, and just have a dialog, and from you I've gotten snotty replies with no real answers to my questions, explicit or implicit.
And lastly, after I didn't reply to you in a timely manner, you posted back here in front of your home crowd, to what I read as underwhelming support.
In short, if you want to discuss my original, or any subsequent point, fine. You've passed on several opportunities to respond to specific points I have made, so where does that leave us? But if all you want to do is complain about my implications or unfairness, then I'm really sorry, I don't have time for that.
That's an expansive definition
"Again, your selective quote seemed intended to mislead, and that to me is dishonest, and I called that hate speech."
Even if we assume, arguendo, that VL intended to mislead, and was therefore dishonest, that would hardly constitute hate speech. From Wikipedia:
"Hate
speech is a term for speech intended to degrade, intimidate, or incite violence or prejudicial action against a person or group of people based on their race, gender, age, ethnicity, nationality, religion, sexual orientation, gender identity, disability, language ability, moral or political views, socioeconomic class, occupation or appearance (such as height, weight, and hair color), mental capacity and any other distinction-liability."
I'm not seeing it.
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OK, I'll give you that small point,
by that definition.
That doesn't excuse any of the other issues I brought up, and it takes that point off the table for future whining.
That's not a small point, it's huge!
You can't sling around a term like "hate speech," and then back off when somebody quotes the definition, for pity's sake! And then add a nice little kick in the teeth with "whining."
And I have to say, it reminds me exactly, but exactly, of the Obama campaign's toxic and baseless smearing of anybody who doesn't vote for their guy as racist; see my sig above.
I love you too, Steve, but this is no way to get the toothpaste back in the tube. It also takes two to take a point off the table, not just one. For pity's sake.
[x] Any (D) in the general. [ ] ?????. [ ] Any mullah-sucking billionaire-teabagging torture-loving pus-encrusted spawn of Cthulhu, bless his (R) heart.
"First they ignore you, then they ridicule you, then they fight you, then you win." -- Mahatma Gandhi
In short, like Obama,
it's okay to abuse others, and cry foul when the slightest push back occurs.
What does that remind me of? Oh, yeah...
It's OK, if you're a Republican.
Sorry, here's the rest of the quote:
BTW, while I don't love this whole statement, it's hardy a traitorous moment. I think the way the HC campaign, and you, presented it was unfortunate.
If this were the only instance
Where he had praised Republicans, while damning his own partym you might have a point, but unfortunately this is part of a continuing pattern with Obama.
Just the other day, when he responded to Bush's imagined attack against him(BTW that is how McCain is framing it as well) in front of the Knesset, he used Republican presidents as examples of diplomacy, the one Dem he used was Kennedy, who helped get us into Viet Nam.
Either he's stupid, or he knows exactly what he's doing, and that doesn't bode well for the Dem party(not that I care, the party doesn't want me anymore regardless).
Bill Clinton for First Dude!!!
He who will not reason is a bigot; he who cannot is a fool; and he who dares not is a slave.
- Sir William Drummond
"Hate speech" is the term...
...generally used to describe the words used by neo-Nazi skinheads, the KKK, and militant anti-gay fundamentalists, anti-immigrant nationalists, etc. Audio's no dummy and knows this. Everybody in the freakin' blogosphere knows this. Little wonder that VL was offended when his/her commentary was labeled thusly. To accuse someone of using hate speech is to call them a racist. No other interpretation is possible. None.
But perhaps Steve did not intend to call VL a racist but simply got caught up in the rhetorical heat of the moment and made an abysmally poor word choice.
Hmmmmmm?
Let's take this step-by-step, Steve
Now you're "officially pissed off." You don't say why "now," exactly, and you act like it's supposed to impress us. OK, you're heroically pissed off. Next.
You say that, unlike me, you directly respond to my points.
Here are my four points, which I've been quite consistent about throughout our exchanges:
Now, where are we on those four points?
1 & 2. More than a week-and-a-half after your original accusation, you offer the most grudging imaginable retrenchment from your "hate speech" claim, calling your inflammatory charge a "small" matter and signaling that you're generously conceding the point in part to prevent "future whining." Mighty big of you, sir.
3. Finally, this morning you clarify where you thought I had willfully misled (which until today was your definition of "hate speech"). What was my sin? Referencing a widely cited quote that's completely consistent with Obama's basic frame of bipartisanship and recurring praise for Reagan — a quote that you admit you don't like much either (why must you be such a h8r, Steve?).
From Audacity:
In what way did I distort Obama's meaning about the "party of ideas"? He repeatedly suggests that both parties are guilty of comparable sins, that both parties are to be respected, and that Reaganism was more or less a rational response to the bureaucratic bloat caused by tax-happy Democrats.
Late last month, Obama said this on Fox News:
He proceeded to misrepresent the GOP's contribution (LOL!) to environmental policy. Damn, Obama's a
hate-speakermisrepresenter, too! This shit is contagious!4. You still haven't explained why, and on what basis, you wrote a post that claimed that there is no misogyny practiced by anyone except those with a particular extreme mental condition. To wit:
And lest you experience another dictionary malfunction, here's how Merriam-Webster defines misogyny: "a hatred of women." No ifs, ands, or "sociopaths-onlies."
I'm a busy person, too, so I don't have time to waste on your protestations about what a noble debater you've been, nor your disappointment that the responses here have been more nuanced than you'd expect.
Steve, baby:
Your responses since then don't do you proud or show you to be the fairminded progressive you consider yourself to be.
I again proffer the theory that it's become simply gauche in the leftysphere to be skeptical of Obama, and that one who raises legitimate issues and, IMHO, some well-earned snark, about him is de facto treated as illegitimate and hateful and someone who must be voted off the island.
Ironically, I had voted myself off the island before I encountered your ill-considered posts.
Good day to you.
Oh for Pete's sake
I made a bad choice of words, I'll admit that.
Otherwise, I stand by my basic points, stated over and over and over...
Misogyny is bad.
Racism is bad.
Clinton has campaigned in ways I find unattractive.
Obama has campaigned in ways I find unattractive.
Dlinton has potitions I disagree with.
Obama has positions I disagree with.
Misogyny toward Clinton doesn't make her a better candidate.
Racisim toward Obama doesn't make him a better candidate.
That's really all.
Sorry to have wasted your time.
And l;astly
* You painted me as a racist or something near-as-might.
* You took it upon yourself to categorize misogyny as a second-class social problem.
That past is pure bullshit.
I mean that part...
misspelling
Well, sure, it's pure BS...
Other than being completely accurate.
1. You did accuse me of hate speech -- a term replete with implications of prejudicial intimidation -- and you have never properly apologized for both your "word choice" and your defective reasoning in searching for whatever similar accusation you actually intended because I made the unacceptable (to you and many others) decision to criticize Barack Obama
2. You did write a post that said that misogyny barely exists (i.e., it's only the province of sociopaths). You have yet to acknowledge that that was a thoughtless and errant position to take, especially in view of the ample evidence of misogyny even in our own political circles.
The rest is just noise.
Lambert, You're absolutely right.
In my original blog post, I probably should have said "trash talking" or something similar to make my point.
And VastLeft, if you go re-read my original blog post, in which I quoted you, you'll see that I supported your point made here:
That was really the entire point my original blog post made, and that's why I quoted you, because you made a wonderful summary to top what I wrote.
Everything else that followed was IMO, distraction and missed my point.
And I'm sorry I didn't look up "sociopath" in the dictionary before I used the word. I'll submit that many words are used in a vernacular sense, and I'm guilty of that. And I'm not a mental health professional, so I was using what I felt was an accurate lay definition.
But I stand by that point. I'm 58 years old. I was aware of Selma, and Montgomery, and clearly remember Wallace standing on the steps of the school. I remember Medgar Evars, I remember ML King. And I also remember when women couldn't do many of the things they can today, when they were held down by a male-dominated society. But by your own definition above, that's hardly misogyny, just institutionalized sexism.
So yes, as I have stated over and over again, I consider racism and misogyny both really bad things. Which is worse, I don't know. I still think that I've seen more racist murder and hate crime than I have misogynist.
I also consider not supporting virtually any Dem against virtually any Rep to be a crime. And on that point, I think we agree.
Otherwise, I think we got pretty far off course here, I'm sorry about my part in that. I hate to see liberals at each others' throats, and that was part of my thesis at my original blog post.
Thanks for caring enough to take the time to engage in discussion.
Steve, I'm drowning....
but if you want to put up a post of the engagement on your blog, I'd be more than happy to respond. Not today, though.
[x] Any (D) in the general. [ ] ?????. [ ] Any mullah-sucking billionaire-teabagging torture-loving pus-encrusted spawn of Cthulhu, bless his (R) heart.
"First they ignore you, then they ridicule you, then they fight you, then you win." -- Mahatma Gandhi
Steve, I'm always happy to make/resume being friends with...
... fellow progressives.
But there has come to be a protocol in much of the blogosphere in which "unity" exists only insofar as one is uncritical of Obama. I've seen it again and again and again.
Even with those who aren't dyed-in-the-wool Obama partisans, the same rules seem to apply.
Unless one starts dropping C-bombs (and sometimes not even then) does anyone seem to get much flak in most circles for saying anything and everything negative about Hillary -- with little concern about how untrue or unfair those criticisms might be.
But criticize Obama and you're a hater, you're unglued, or, even in your latest offer a "trash talker."
I simply happen to have strong and well-documented reasons why I'm hoping against hope (so to speak) that our last Democratic alternative to an Obama nomination can pull this off. That doesn't make me a hater or a trash talker. It makes me a loyal Democrat who thinks our frontrunner is a weak choice, someone who has done anything to ask for my vote and someone who has outrageously wasted a gift for oratory by spewing a pleasing but deeply dishonest and disempowering view of the American political situation.
I got into blogging because I sought to join the media critique furthered by reality-based people. I'm getting out, more or less, because truthiness has hit my side of the aisle something fierce, and I'm expecting to have to eat my concerns about it at least into November.
Peace.