Gracefully

Syn. Subserviently.

And for the good of my career.

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Cryptic

No link. No clue.

plain as day

if you’re a member of the class that’s constantly being exhorted to be ’graceful’.

nodding

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It's because we're bitter

that we need to be exhorted to be graceful… an accurate translation would be “bend over and quit bitching… don’t worry, you’re gonna love it.”

and that is where I first understood the need to tell a Mormon

to step right the hell off my case.

He had the unmitigated gall to tell me that as a wife and mother it was my duty to give up my job and support my husband in his career.

A nonexistent entity, not just at that time but at any time since; I am thankful, and not just in hindsight, that that marriage barely lasted two more months. Of course, the job barely lasted six weeks after this exchange…

We can admit that we’re killers … but we’re not going to kill today. That’s all it takes! Knowing that we’re not going to kill today! ~ Captain James T. Kirk, Stardate 3193.0

Understood now

Never been asked to; apparently, one look at me and any thought of encouraging “graceful” was seen as not worth the effort. A genetic defect, something about a Y chromosome, so I expect full sympathy for my lack. In physiological compensation, however, I can lift and tote with the best of them so my culturally assigned gender expectations are easily met.