Sex Talk: Men are Easy
So, recently I offended a bunch of nice people because I basically said: "men are easier to please than women, sexually speaking." I didn't mean this to be about men being more stupid, less exciting or interesting, or any other negative connotation about men and sex. But gosh! Is that so controversial to say? Men need... well, imho it's pretty simple. Sure, men want and need love and relationships and complexity and all that. But men also want simple things, and if one is good at those, one can make any man come. I've always been fascinated by the American male (and perhaps this is international, I don't know) obsession with pr0n. As Twisty once said, "why do I hate porn? because I think there are better alternatives." She got slammed for that post, but I basically agreed, as a woman, even as I had no expectations that men or many women would agree with her. Men in this country defend the porn industry because they claim they "need" it. Well, that sort of proves my point. Pictures of naked women you don't know and who don't love you are enough to get you off? OK. Not judging. But most women need a great deal more than that. Sure, there are many differences between men, women, and I know I'm generalizing and over-simplifying. But I do have a great deal of experience when it comes to sex, like, a professional level of experience (although I have never professionally worked in the sex industry other than naked dancing), and I'm sorry to say: there are three or four tricks that always work with a man, if the goal is to bring him to orgasm. What do you think? Physiology is also key; women are just more complex, in this sense. That's medical and scientific fact. It doesn't make us "better" or "sexier," but it does make us different. Thank you for letting me do this logic check with y'all. I was sort of wigged out by how angry I made these folks for saying these things.