My Set will never, ever let me live this one down. Ohmygawd, I’m covering my face with both hands because I can’t bear to witness all my accumulated Kewl running, screaming, away from me. deep moment of self-reflection OK, clearly I’ve misjudged my duties here. Guys, gals even, the bottom line in the Game of Love: everyone wants to be with a winner.

Does that sound cruel, harsh, wrong, and/or shallow? I suppose it is. But it’s still true. Put another way: how many people imagine their ideal love as someone who is in every way, lesser than themselves? My money is on “not many.” You want it? Then you’ve got to be it.  Read more