...the kind you slammed the First Lady for having, remember?
"Carly Fiorina...met with the former Clinton backers at a private home for more than an hour and a half. Fiorina said in an interview that over glasses of iced tea and finger food, she fielded questions from Democratic women she described as “intensely uncomfortable with the notion of a President Obama.’’
"...Polls show Obama winning the majority of support from women voters while about a quarter of ex-Clinton supporters are leaning toward McCain."
That quarter would give the election to McCain, sir.
"The meeting wasn’t stocked with typical voters, however. These were prominent activists and fund-raisers, including several known as “Hillraisers,’’ who raised more than $100,000 for Clinton during the primary season...Together4Us.com, which officially hosted the event, and JustSayNoDeal.com had representatives there."
And unlike Mr. Obama, who got impatient and had to be asked not to use the phrase "get over it," by Rep. Diane Watson and who said "see my website" for details:
"(Amy) Siskind (the organizer) said Fiorina agreed to provide details regarding McCain’s stances on mandating health insurance coverage for birth control pills, federal mandates for paid maternity leave and a reinvigoration of federal legislation aimed at giving women equal pay for comparable work.
"Siskind said the group told Fiorina that if McCain would give some concrete assurances of support on such issues, the people in the room and the organizations they represented could help deliver “hundreds of thousands and maybe millions of votes” to the presumptive Republican nominee."
Could that be due to Mr. Obama downplaying his support for women? For example he mentions fathers twice as often as mothers on his webpage on families, argues that increasing the minimum wage by 2011 and tax cuts will also help solve the equal pay gap for women, and, in fact, has abandoned his pledged position on abortion.
"Fiorina, who recently held a similar meeting in Ohio, predicted there would be more. Of Clinton, the lifelong Republican said this: “I have said on many occasions that I have great empathy for her.’’"
Not going to hear that from the Obama campaign either.
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Carly Fiorina is the Democratic Party's best weapon
Watched her up close and personal out here in Silicon Valley while she single-handedly almost destroyed Hewlett-Packard. She'll do the same for McCain and the Republican Party. I'm very enthusiastic about her involvement.
Oh and, excellent reference there, The Wall Street Journal. Well known for the independent, objective editorial staff and management as well as for journalistic political neutrality. No bias apparent in that article at all, perfectly respectable to take Amy and Carly at their word for what kind of people were at the meeting and how well it went.
R.I.P., PB 2.0; strangled in its crib.
here, have some more foil, sweetie.
i really, really wanted to like carly when she first shot to stardom at hp, but you're right she's going to be the dems' best friend this year if we let her.
[between the lions and hippos and corn maizes oh my! i never did get back to the rbc. maybe tomorrow evening.]
She's an absolute nightmare
The snickering term for her out here was "The Carly Show". Everything was all about her, all the time, total PR effort and hordes of syncophants, all surface and no substance. A disaster.
provincialism....
sorry, but your provincialism is showing. The fact that someone like Fiorina wasn't a big hit locally doesn't means she's not effective on a national stage.
Indeed, I'd like to suggest that she is looking good as a potential VP. Her (relative to McCain) youth and vigor, her gender, and her 'expertise' on economic issues would complement McCain nicely.
Actually
The WSJ has some of the best reporting around. It's the editorial page staff that's whackadoo.
Shhhhhh...
That doesn't matter when you're supporting a candidate with less than flattering coverage. The amusing thing is that Fiorina has been doing outreach for a long time out in the open so trying to put doubt on the story is pretty absurd.
I know, I know, context is the out.
Speaking of absurd
Here's one for you: Claiming to advance progressive objectives by repeating verbatim what is nothing more than a political propaganda piece promoted by the chief house organ of the Plutocrat criminal cabal, along with an endorsement of their veracity as a source.
I didn't cast doubt at all on the fact that Fiorina is
desire to destroy democracy and civilization, and I affirm that she certainly is. What I dispute is the wisdom, indeed the decency, of repeating her claims, the claims of another VRWC
operative, and the unquestioning reportage of those unconfirmed claims as though they are of any value beyond propaganda.
doing outreach(nice cover term, gq) trying to steal money and votes from Democrats to support the furtherance of the VRWCAnd speaking of support for candidates with unflattering coverage, those of us who are committed to progressive interests would appreciate it if those claiming to be progressives but who are actually offering arguments that devolve into support for John McCain would stop doing so - now.
The Wall Street Journal
is a corporatist mouthpiece. It serves the interests of the ruling economic class at the expense of the masses. It is a dedicated organ of the Plutocrat criminal conspiracy. It is the enemy of all things progressive.
A fish rots from the head down.
What on earth, brington...
... does PB 2.0 have to do with that idiot Carly Fiorina? (If you're identifying PB 2.0 with PUMA.... Over my dead body, not that I don't have considerably sympathy for PUMA, but separate tracks).
OTOH, at least McCain is smart enough to try to answer the question "And we get?" in some concrete way, and stop yammering about Roe. Sounds like good politics on both sides, to me.
Anybody ask Fiorina if McCain thinks sex is sacred?
UPDATE And I don't think he said "Get over it." Not once....
[ ] Very tepidly voting for Obama [ ] ?????. [ ] Any mullah-sucking billionaire-teabagging torture-loving pus-encrusted spawn of Cthulhu, bless his (R) heart.
"First they ignore you, then they ridicule you, then they fight you, then you win." -- Mahatma Gandhi
Roe
The obsession with Roe is why more Hillary supporters are going to vote McCain than people think. Note that the article addresses several issues but not really Roe. Obama supporters who try to hold women hostage by yelling Roe are pretty clueless. I know little about women, but even I know that.
Carly didn't do a great job at HP, but not everyone hated her as bio suggests. Like any woman who gets to the top, she's going to be ridiculed. The focus on ridiucling her rather than just stating HP was worse off after her tenure doesn't help the anti-woman image Obama has.
Nice spin, bringiton
... but the fact that even her misstatements of McCain's policy proposals gets her press puts her in the forefront of VP candidates.... something Obama can't really hammer down right now, can he?
Glad you appreciate it, cg.eye
Elegantly done if I do say so myself.
Lovely to exhange views with you but I am at a loss here. What exactly is it you feel Obama can't "hammer down" right now, Carly's lies or that she gets mention in the corporatist flagship publication or or that the paper willingly, eagerly, reprints VRWC
/Republican propaganda or that she's being touted - by her own agents, no doubt - as someone to consider as VP?
And, what do you mean by "hammer down" exactly? Please restate.
the latter.
Those who've been bandied about as VP material for Obama look like weak tea, in comparison. Fiorina might have run a company into the ground, but by God she's run one. McCain looks stronger by getting someone with that competence, even if it was short-lived. Remember that whole 'well, has any candidate here held a full-time job' thing? She has.
Since Obama also lost the 'new way of doing business/no usual political lying' advantage (FISA, anyone?), his pointing out Carly's lies goes into the same bucket as his surrogates' hounding Clinton: Just politics, and they all lie, right?
Obama can't have Surrogates Who Speak For Him Who'd Look Good As VP because:
1) That would require people who could speak independently on his behalf, and his campaign's message control doesn't allow for someone other than him to have that free-ranging, authoritiative competence, let alone the freedom to make and recover from gaffes (the 'under the bus' thing?);
2) The guys he's choosing so far make Fiorina look liberal, by comparison. (Sam Nunn? Really?)
Not to mention
3) If he does make Clinton a VP frontrunner in that way, he risks alienating the hate gang that propelled him to the nomination or
4) if he clearly does *not* present her as a VP choice, there goes his outreach to many Hillary democrats.
Because of decisions Obama actively or passively made, he doesn't have the freedom McCain has to ask for votes from women who might hate his core principles, but at least know the only way to maintain leverage is to use it.
And as for the WSJ, you would be wrong before Murdoch owned the paper, and you'd be wrong now, in saying that no responsible journalism ever came from it. [Which you did not say, BIO -- but what else can be derived by calling WSJ propagators of VRWC
propaganda, without any acknowledgment of the non-editorial journalism it conducts?] In fact, how the hell do you think Fiorina lost her job? By a WSJ reporter whose trash got investigated, due to the good leaks gotten from the HP board. To quote the reporter, Pui-Wing Tam:
The only reason the WSJ kept its circulation during the decades when it featured the howlingest of right-wing howler monkeys was that its basic non-editorial journalism remained sound. Unless Murdoch replaced all of the news staff, some remnants of that journalism still remain. Besides, there's no reason not to say plainly what happened, since PUMA coalition members attended and have their own websites to confirm or deny details. (After the SF 'bitter/cling' incident, they're *not* going to report on details of fundraising meetings that bother them? Leverage works best when *both* sides' feet are held to the fire....)
Roe? What About Contraception
McCain has consistently voted against requiring insurance companies that pay for Viagra to pay for contraception for women and he has stated that Roe should be overturned.
But there are Democratic women who still support him? Amazing. I've heard of cutting off your nose to spite your face but this is way past that.
McCain's record speaks for itself. Don't just rely on the Wall Street Journal. Check out Project Vote Smart's info on McCain's voting record on abortion, health care and other issues that women care about: http://www.votesmart.org/voting_category....
There are a lot of reasons to dislike Barak Obama, there are not a lot of reasons to support John McCain.
Obama won't do that either--
no one who speaks of "the sacredness of sex" and "not promoting casual activities" and expanding "faith-based funding" (which includes millions to abstinence-only stuff) is going to do anything to help ensure the availability of, or coverage of, contraceptives.
... Obama used talking points that I would expect to hear from John McCain: Abstinence education. The sacredness of sexual behavior. Adoption. ...
Except of course for the constantly repeated lie
conflating abstinence as one choice among many options with Abstinence-Only. The later is stupid, foolish, ineffective and offensive to any sort of rational thought or simple compassion. Obama has never advocated for, nor discussed supporting, Abstinence-Only public programs.
Instead he has advocated comprehensive publically funded sex education including abstinence as one of many choices for preventing unwanted pregnancy, a choice made by some but not others and 100% effective when it is actually practiced. Maybe not your choice, maybe not mine, but still a choice and one that appeals to certain segments of the populace and certainly one that should be discussed along with effective means of birth control when sex occurs.
There are many things about Barack Obama that are lacking from a progressive perspective; this is not one of them. It is a deliberate deceit to accuse Obama of something he has never done. Those who resort to lies to try and condemn someone are no better morally than the VRWC
.
Abstinence
Here's the quote from Obama's interview with relevant*:
Bringiton appears to be arguing that "abstinence" is not the same as "abstinence-only." However, this legalistic parsing of words, so necessary for so many of Obama's utterances, is surely irrelevant given the Christianist
context. Any dog can hear that whistle. Further, IIRC, it's not just abstinence-only programs that are ineffective and dangerous; it's abstinence programs as such.
And if Obama wants to advocate that sex is sacred, then he shouldn't be doing it on my dime, with government money.
Bottom line is that Obama's telling Christianist
youth that he supports their religious values; and he's telling Christianist
elders that $176 million in abstinence funding will continue.
I think bringiton's vehemence on "deceit" is directly proportional to the weakness of his case. Pound the table, and all....
NOTE * A Christianist
magazine aimed at young evangelicals, and -- some might argue -- therefore every bit as much in service to the plutocracy as the WSJ. Details on the Christianist
version of the creative class [cough] here.
[ ] Very tepidly voting for Obama [ ] ?????. [ ] Any mullah-sucking billionaire-teabagging torture-loving pus-encrusted spawn of Cthulhu, bless his (R) heart.
"First they ignore you, then they ridicule you, then they fight you, then you win." -- Mahatma Gandhi
No "appears" about it
It is my argument that "Abstinence-Only" programs are not the same as teaching "abstinence" as an acceptable option in the context of a broader sex education program that also includes useful information on birth control. Words do matter.
There's no legalistic parsing on my part; the one is not the same as the other and you can see that in any dictionary, no law degree required. It is because a false conflation has been attempted that I point out the difference; Obama has nothing to do with it. When the false conflation stops happening, I will gladly stop pointing it out.
I have said that "Abstinence-Only" programs are at best a waste of money and time; they are foolish and ineffective. The link you provide, Lambert, in this sentence
Further, IIRC, it’s not just abstinence-only programs that are ineffective and dangerous; it’s abstinence programs as such.
refers in fact to a study done on opt-in "Abstinence-Only" classes. The text of the full study [pdf] is here.
The programs studied were ReCapturing the Vision in Miami, Florida; Teens in Control in Clarksdale, Mississippi; My Choice, My Future! in Powhatan, Virginia; and Families United to Prevent Teen Pregnancy in Milwaukee, Wisconsin. All of them are Title V, Section 510 Abstinence Education Program grantees teaching "Abstinence Only." They don't work.
I also don't see any "dog-whistles." He isn't talking in code at all, I understand him and so do you. Claiming that he's trying to communicate something secretly to Christians is at best arguable; my reading is that he's trying to very carefully not allow himself to be pinned down one way or the other. Typical political tapdance, to be sure, but hardly evidence of secret advocacy for theist-based sex education of any sort.
As to the "sacredness" term, that is indeed the way most parents approach sex talk especially when they have daughters. In addition to being a candidate for president, he's also a human being and father of two daughters; one can hardly expect him to be arguing that fucking around is hella fun.
Pound the table? Pfah. Didn't even raise my voice.
And what's your particular issue with Relevant? Just one more god-scam, there are millions of them, but as these things go it seems innocuous enough and at $1.8MM in annual sales it isn't anywhere in the range or influence of the WSJ. What has it got to do with anything else in this thread?
And you still can't see
Why so many women have problems with him?
As to the “sacredness” term, that is indeed the way most parents approach sex talk especially when they have daughters.
What is the relevance of having daughters here? Because women are expected to have a different set of sexual desires and morals, than the default(read male)? Which directly relates to the Christianist
idea that the only value a woman has is the purity of her pu55y.
You are a pretty eglitarian guy, so the fact that you see this behavior, sacredness of sex for women, shows me that it really is there. That's why most women don't believe he will be any better for us than McCain, because while he'll protect Roe, it will only be for women who reached the decision to have an abortion the "right" way, in thoughtful consideration with the men in her life.
These ideas don't cut it with a lot of women. At least with McCain, we know where he stands, whereas to many, Obama is the stalking horse on the removal of repro rights, for the plain and simple fact that he calls himself a Democrat, no one is looking at this to come from him, and it will be harder to get the grassroots worked up against him if he tries to do it, while the Obots tell us all about how he "has" to compromise, to get something else done, but don't worry, we'll fight this battle for you girls later.
:P
Bill Clinton for First Dude!!!
He who will not reason is a bigot; he who cannot is a fool; and he who dares not is a slave.
- Sir William Drummond
The One Issue McCain never flipped on..
..is his determination to overturn Roe. A cursory glance at his voting record shows someone who does not have womens interest at heart.
I understand unhappiness with the DNC, Obama, MSM, even though I may not agree with all of the above, but to express your anger by supporting McCain is masochistic.
This may be the most self-destructive political movement since the children crusade of the middles ages
moondancer
Whew!
Good thing I know how not to get pregnant!
This is one of the worst elections ever in terms of completely repellent candidates. Voting for McCain may be masochistic in some ways, but it's not the same as handing my vote to a party that has happily validated an absoltuely repulsive campaign of misogyny and phony claims of racism all for the almighty dollar.
Just remember, McCain cannot overturn Roe by executive order. Regardless of what red meat he throws out to the GOP base to gin up donations, any nominee to the Supreme Court has to be confirmed by the Senate. Voting for Obama (who may very well nominate someone equally committed to the end of Roe, based on Obama's previous reactions to SCOTUS nominees) just to save the Senate Dems from actually earning their paycheck is pathetic. Are there any Obama supporters old enough to remember Bork?
Not an Obama supporter but I am quite old enough
to remember Bork. He was nominated by Reagan, a Republican just like John McCain, so thanks for making the point that a Republican president will be a disaster for progressive interests before the SCOTUS.
The point
Which I honestly believe you are being deliberately obtuse about, is that Bork was defeated, mainly because he was put forth by a Rep Prez, but had to go through a Dem senate.
So our point, is that is a situation that would be preferable, than a Dem senate rubber stamping whatever nominee Obama decided to put up, regardless of their stance.
Of course, recent history shows that the current incarnation of Dems probably wouldn't fight Bork today, but hey if they notice that women who want better protections on their rights are the reason McCain is Pres, instead of Obama, maybe they'll start pandering to us, instead of the Christianists who want to take our rights
Bill Clinton for First Dude!!!
He who will not reason is a bigot; he who cannot is a fool; and he who dares not is a slave.
- Sir William Drummond
Et tu, Corrente
Is it me or does there appear to be a recent accumulation/infestation of cheeto-esque talking points with little substance? Hyperbole is good to make a point, but when used as a criticism of non-Obamaphiles its pretty lame.
Hope this is the exception, not the rule to what comes next.
Phew!
thanks for being there, gg. That series of shiny new Obots (although they all sounded like the exact same writer) was getting to me. Glad to a familiar name....
Here, let me fix this for you GQ
You're welcome.
Political Leverage Is A Good Thing
They met to discuss possibly supporting McCain and wanted specific information on his positions on a number of issues and clearly trying to push him in a certain direction on those issues in exchange for possibly winning their support. What's wrong with that?
Now, I doubt they're going to get answers they like because McCain isn't good on the issues they raised. But it's good politics to try to use your leverage to move candidates in directions that you prefer. By making the meeting public, they were no doubt trying to move Obama* as much as trying to move McCain. And if they get McCain to move on issues like access to birth control, that's a good thing isn't it? If McCain wins wouldn't you rather he support access to birth control?
So what's wrong with any of that?
While I have no interest in supporting McCain, it's nice to see Republicans meeting with part of the Democratic base to try to win their support (and, yes, many of these people are part of the Democratic base whether Obama supporters and other Dems want to admit it or not). Usually, we get both the GOP and the Democrats rushing to make the evangelicals happy as we've already seen in the past month. And do you know why we see that every fucking election cycle? Because evangelical voters stay home if the GOP doesn't tend its base. So while the Democratic candidate runs from his base to the GOP's base after every primary, the GOP candidate stays home so his base doesn't. There's a lesson in there for the rest of us.
And while I have no desire to see a President McCain, if he does end up winning, I'd much rather see it chalked up to Obama being unable to secure his base or his problems with women voters than the storyling we've typically gotten which is that the Democrat lost because he wasn't conservative enough for white men. Because that storyline keeps moving the entire political discussion further to the right. It's also wrong as a factual matter, the difference between Kerry and Gore was how they did among white women (and perhaps if that truth was the media narrative the Obama campaign would be more concerned about making this voting bloc - rather than his Christianist
friends - happy).
* I suspect that's why we suddenly have an influx of folks spouting the usual Roe talking points. These folks aren't just trying to leverage McCain, they're trying to leverage Obama instead of doing what they're supposed to, shutting up and sending Obama more money.
"Do what you feel in your heart to be right -- for you'll be criticized anyway. You'll be damned if you do, and damned if you don't. " - Eleanor Roosevelt
it's not like they have pull w/voters--
they're mostly unknown Hillary fundraisers, and really can't sway votes--Hillary can't either.
Ahem. Mine's up there. I keep the stairways swept.
It's time we stopped looking for excuses to bash each other and got on with the business of beating the GOP this fall.
I think we can all three agree on that, can't we, FrenchDoc and Bringiton?
We can admit that we're killers ... but we're not going to kill today. That's all it takes! Knowing that we're not going to kill today! ~ Captain James T. Kirk, Stardate 3193.0
We can admit that we’re killers … but we’re not going to kill today. That’s all it takes! ~ Captain James T. Kirk, Stardate 3193.0
1 John 4:18
Various unedifying interchanges deleted
Jeez, it's Friday. Go get drunk or something. Or take it offline.
[ ] Very tepidly voting for Obama [ ] ?????. [ ] Any mullah-sucking billionaire-teabagging torture-loving pus-encrusted spawn of Cthulhu, bless his (R) heart.
"First they ignore you, then they ridicule you, then they fight you, then you win." -- Mahatma Gandhi
Drinking that tea
Hi everyone. I really support ANY negotiation with either camp for our ACTUAL RIGHTS, for "what we get," as Lambert says.
Where is the harm anyway in publicizing what Democrats want, and saying they have power?
Mr. Obama SHOULD be drinking tea with the powerful pro-Clinton faction of the party, and he HAS to NOW do this especially because he has betrayed his former campaign promises--to an extent never done by at least any recent Democratic candidate. Mr. Obama is CHOOSING to downplay MANY of his better policies and acting as if they are up for compromise. Mr. McCain is more progressive than Mr. Obama on several issues, notably campaign finance reform, earmarks, and parts of his environmental plan (he voted against the 2005 Cheney energy bill which Obama voted for.) All Mr. Obama has to do is stand up for the right things NOW.
Be FOR him or AGAINST Mr. Obama, but please, hold HIM to some STANDARDS. And this kind of pressure seems to be the only thing keeping him from going even further in the wrong direction--for example, having to justify his FISA vote seemed to cool him down some on that issue. There's no sense in having a candidate who once said the right things and then abandoned them. If we don't SAY anything, there's no price he has to pay for turning against the values he once espoused. Go read his speeches from even 2007 (and earlier)--he doesn't sound like that anymore. If he's President, we need to write him about things we don't agree with--why not try now and try to get things from him that could make some of us decide to vote for him? That he would feel he HAD to deliver as President?
Give your passion to the issues that would help people.
Sorry to preach to those of you already in the choir. Thanks for your support and insight. You here at CW
are great.
Damn, children, we're all sore tonight. You'd think everybody'd
got hungover on store-brand cheese puffs and and cheap light beer in Austin, or something.
Bringiton has a point, Lambert.
I'm learning -- being brought up short two or three times a paragraph, these damn days -- that there's a difference between using language the way I always have, as a tool, and using it as my bosses do -- as a WEAPON.
There is a difference between abstinence as one element in an array of strategies, and abstinence-only. One is a legitimate approach to teaching -- it's an option some people may be able to use effectively, some of the time.
(Bear in mind that abstinence has to be a cooperative behavior.) Abstinence, in some conditions, can work (ask anybody who's ever lived through US Air Force basic training. You don't have *time* to flirt, or opportunity to go beyond flirting!) -- but there must be exactly the right conditions.
Abstinence-only is destined, on the other hand, to FAIL.
This is why many of the godbotherers love it -- they know it will FAIL, and that gives them an edge to persecute their fellow human beings.
It's not enough for them to hate gays and divorce and a woman's own body-sovereignty (I'm talking about more than abortion here -- I'm talking about the right to eat and drink and wear clothes to suit herself, rather than live up to the judgmental demands of others -- and that covers everything from the way she wears her hair and the flavor of her toothpaste to the style of her underwear and her choice of contraceptives. A woman's ability to make her own choices in everything from her education to her wardrobe is under constant attack in our "never-too-rich, never-too-thin, gotta-be-sexy" society; sadly, it's not just the godbotherers who are attacking. Haute couture is every bit as misogynist as the Democratic party leadership that wouldn't stop what happened to Hillary Clinton) -- they have to hate kids and singles and, yes, sexual-abuse victims too.
I don't know why they want me to believe in the god they push so hard, because that god is so weak they can put limits on every aspect of existence and puissance a god should possess.
That's not the point.
The point is we're picking fights amongst ourselves, instead of taking the fight to the real enemy of the country.
Focus, people. BEAT McCAIN!!!!!
We can admit that we're killers ... but we're not going to kill today. That's all it takes! Knowing that we're not going to kill today! ~ Captain James T. Kirk, Stardate 3193.0
We can admit that we’re killers … but we’re not going to kill today. That’s all it takes! ~ Captain James T. Kirk, Stardate 3193.0
1 John 4:18
Disconnect
Sarah, I love this part (and see here):
But this is all true, though in different ways --- different vectors? Pathways of infection? -- for men [bracketing discussion of male privilege for now, and I know I'm thinking clumsily here]. Men are systematically denied their "body sovreignty" [or whatever the combination of body and soul would be for an atheist, assuming soul to be a religious concept]. "Never-too-rich, never-too-studly, never-too-much-aggro." Where's that six-pack? We're all human resources. This applies regardless of gender.
So who then is "the real enemy"? I'm quite happy to leave the A list to deal with McCain. They have a lot more power than I do, in this regard, and I see no reason to sing in chorus with them, or duplicate their work.
NOTE Sarah's point about systems designed to FAIL is a very powerful analytical tool; as Krugman says, "Bad systems, bad choices." These "massive fail" systems are all over, and they need to be called out, with the supplemental question "Fail for who"? Both Iraq and the so-called health care system are massive fails -- except, of course, for the rich and thin 2% who collect the returns from exploiting their control over the extraction of value from violations of the bodily sovreignty of some large class of humans (whether soldiers or the sick).*
This is why IMHO the penumbra of the right to privacy is not in the Fourth Amendment but the Eighth ("cruel and unusual punishment," since torture is all about the violation of bodily sovreignty).
[ ] Very tepidly voting for Obama [ ] ?????. [ ] Any mullah-sucking billionaire-teabagging torture-loving pus-encrusted spawn of Cthulhu, bless his (R) heart.
"First they ignore you, then they ridicule you, then they fight you, then you win." -- Mahatma Gandhi
Most parents?
"As to the “sacredness” term, that is indeed the way most parents approach sex talk especially when they have daughters."
I would be interested in a link here, because this seems very unlikely to me. Even amongst many of the regular church-goers in America, I think the talk would be more about love and respect, for self and others, say, and safety. (I would hope that many would treat the sons pretty much the same in most ways here.) But I'm guessing too, and basing it on the type of sex and relationship lessons that many American churches teach. I would say that your point above is certainly true of many American Catholic churches.
But I do think--and didn't Mr. John F. Kennedy think too?--that that kind of talk belongs to the churches, not the Democratic candidate for the President of the United States.
I don't share the idea that the standard you are arguing for here, that Mr. Obama is like most parents, is the right one. He is not our neighbor; he wants to be our leader.
Which does not make him less human
Different people use different words to mean the same thing. I myself use "sacred" frequently, even though I have no religious feelings at all. My children have been raised with the concept of "sacredness" [definition #5] applying to a number of things such as honesty and civic responsibility and yes, sexual relations. I see no reason why the concept of "sacred" should be reserved to formal religion, or to religion of any sort at all.
I also reject the notion that inclusion of "sacred" somehow precludes other aspects of sexuality including unwanted pregnancy, love, respect for one's self and for others, consideration of other's feelings and safety. All of them should be discussed, and indeed that is what I have heard Obama propose.
I have no illusions; everyone will, in the end, work out sexual behavior for themselves and that includes my children. So far, they have all either kept their sexual relationships relatively limited or they have successfully hid any rampant promiscuity from me. Call me a prude if you wish, but I'm happier with that than I would be if they were more openly adventurous and casual.
Of course, one would hope that sons and daughters would get the same talk and be grounded with the same ethical constructs. In practice it does not happen that way, in my opinion and experience, and that is much to the detriment of our sons who are burdened with unreasonable expectations of what it means to be a man. Commercially driven distortions of masculinity are just as damaging to young men as are the distortions targeted towards women that Sarah discussed above. The focus of my statement on daughters was nothing more than a reflection of the pure fact that Obama has two daughters; no larger meaning was intended.
When I hear Obama talking about sex, I hear a father talking as much as, more than, anything else. I do not find myself put off by that humanity.
If you're think a President ought to be a father...
... to the American people, then maybe we need to have another discussion.
Being human involves context-switching, eh? Not everything needs to be said, not all feelings need to be shared, thank the God(ess)(e)(s) of your choice, and especially not be candidates running for office.
I mean, what next? Sex tips? Discussion of "marital aids"? Why not, given your argument above? That's part of humanity, too.
I still see the whole thing as pandering to Christianists, given the context.
[ ] Very tepidly voting for Obama [ ] ?????. [ ] Any mullah-sucking billionaire-teabagging torture-loving pus-encrusted spawn of Cthulhu, bless his (R) heart.
"First they ignore you, then they ridicule you, then they fight you, then you win." -- Mahatma Gandhi
Discussion on discussions
Sarah, do you have a link to what programs Mr. Obama is proposing to actually support?
"The point is we’re picking fights amongst ourselves, instead of taking the fight to the real enemy of the country."
It seems to me that we are instead discussing what is important and what matters to us, as individuals and as Democrats or Independents, etc. We fairly clearly have a number of issues on which we agree, and a number of issues on which we disagree. The arguments here, in part, are about which issues are important or shouldn't be. I really have no sense that most people are trying to fool anyone--rather that most are trying to articulate what is important to them and why. I hope many people will say what they think, and that we can keep our replies civil (this is not directed at anyone in particular and in fact due to a power outage I never saw the interactions Lambert deleted--thanks Lambert.) I know it's a hard line between the passion that carries our replies and being civil, especially in a larger environment where many of us were not listened to--but please try. It's important for people to be able to discuss their views and concerns and issues freely. I cannot subscribe to the view that the very discussion and understanding of what a candidate means should be repressed nor that we just need to focus on beating a candidate without understanding both candidates' views fully. In fact, in these days of some of the more fervent and at times repressive OFB
, we have an obligation to support and provide free discussion--in which all are heard. We may not agree--and I think may not once all are heard. I know it's difficult, which I think many well-meaning people have found, both for and against Mr. Obama, to work with and perhaps fully understand a candidate like Mr. Obama--he, unlike Kerry or Gore, seems to want to keep all his options open as far as his policies (or even to exactly what political flavor they will take) but Mr. Obama's recent changing of many of his positions calls out for us even more as good citizens to reexamine his positions, and call him out on them where we find them wanting.
After FISA....
... I no longer believe that Rs alone are "the enemy." Sorry.
One Village
, One System, and the R party in that one system is only part of the problem. That that there aren't good individual Ds, there are. But as a whole, the Democratic Party isn't doing what they were elected to do. Nor do they care. Their 14% IIRC rating is a sign that they're doing fine, just fine...
[ ] Very tepidly voting for Obama [ ] ?????. [ ] Any mullah-sucking billionaire-teabagging torture-loving pus-encrusted spawn of Cthulhu, bless his (R) heart.
"First they ignore you, then they ridicule you, then they fight you, then you win." -- Mahatma Gandhi
Truth Partisan, you are in truth
well named.
I like that Correntewire is boldly shrill, but what caused me to settle here in flight from the A-list is the collective's ability to dwell with disagreement. Thanks to all for that, thanks especially to mother hen Lambert for tending to the collective. Thanks to the obstreperous ones for creating the discomfort that may keep this place honest, for a while.
Policy not party!
"Mother hen lambert"
Ouch!
I like to think of myself as still virile, thank you very much! (Pile on, feminists, womanists....)
[ ] Very tepidly voting for Obama [ ] ?????. [ ] Any mullah-sucking billionaire-teabagging torture-loving pus-encrusted spawn of Cthulhu, bless his (R) heart.
"First they ignore you, then they ridicule you, then they fight you, then you win." -- Mahatma Gandhi
Gee, and here I thought you was a
grrl the whole time.
A virile grrl to be sure, dear.
Policy not party!
Haw!
It's a mixed up world....
[ ] Very tepidly voting for Obama [ ] ?????. [ ] Any mullah-sucking billionaire-teabagging torture-loving pus-encrusted spawn of Cthulhu, bless his (R) heart.
"First they ignore you, then they ridicule you, then they fight you, then you win." -- Mahatma Gandhi
I'm late to the discussion
but, two points. Bringiton, while I agree with your assessment of Obama-on-sex-as-a-topic could be a measure of the man-as-father’s humanity, I don’t agree he was playing that role in this context of his Relevance interview. As he demonstrated immediately after Hillary suspended her campaign, that audience is a must have on his campaign’s top ten list of forums. Clear motive on this one.
I would also add, the lack of humanity displayed by ignoring misogyny’s role in his campaign is unconscionable. He was born from a woman, his life partner is a woman, and his daughters will become women. All inherit a world made sour (and dangerous) by such ignorance.
Secondly, Sarah, I cannot support Obama, not because he is not McCain, but because, as Lizza’s New Yorker article so methodically tracked, he has single-mindedly pursued his own ambition over the interests of his constituents. The only thing I can predict about Obama’s positions on the issues I care about is that they will depend on who he thinks has more power to promote him at the time.
Obama long ago abrogated his right to legitimately claim to have had a change of heart on reproductive rights or almost any other issue. Not only has he not articulated why he has gone back on former promises/pledges/platforms and denied he ever had a differing view, he has blamed those he considers hard of hearing, or dense, for having the audacity to hold him accountable to his own statements.
I, for one, will not be compounding my previous error of voting for democrats who do not meet the smell test.
"The large print giveth and the small print taketh away" -- Tom Waits
"The large print giveth and the small print taketh away" -- Tom Waits
DNC is demanding that Hillary $$ ppl board the unity train--
Top Dem Party Officials Send Sharply-Worded Email Demanding That Hillary Donors And Supporters Get Behind Obama -- http://tpmelectioncentral.talkingpointsm...
Didn't ask anybody to support Obama, did I?
Best description of The Precious
I have ever read.
Sadly, it's also the best description of any politician -- of any party, or in any position. Which is why we can't afford to let up. If The Precious
is to be the standardbearer for the Democrats this fall (godhelpus), we cannot afford to sit idly by and let The Precious
' flaws go unremarked and unrebuked.
But let us not lose sight of the goal, which is to get a Democrat elected in every race we can. Once we have Democrats in place, we can bend our efforts towards BETTER Democrats.
Lambert, I don't think the country needs a "father" in the White House. FSM knows Jack Kennedy didn't have that public image; within living memory, Camelot is regarded as the most nearly-perfect incarnation of the vision that I grew up believing was The American Dream.
I'd rather have Tim Allen (of Home Improvement) in the White House than either of the presumptive nominees, though. Flawed as he is and crude as his humor can be, Allen's had a lifetime of listening to and attuning his work to suit his audience.
SO much more qualified than a mere politician.
Asked you to focus on the job at hand, bearded librarian -- gotta keep John McCain out of the White House.
If we get Obama, we get Obama. If we get Cynthia McKinney, we get McKinney. If we get (by some miracle) Hillary, so be it.
Of those four I see the American people being pretty well screwed anyway, but the one of them who would be the savviest about running the country and the least likely to screw the most people more severely is Clinton, in my view. Next McKinney. Between Obama and McCain, it's not really a toss-up; it's just that the idea of having to choose between them makes me want to toss my cookies.
We can admit that we're killers ... but we're not going to kill today. That's all it takes! Knowing that we're not going to kill today! ~ Captain James T. Kirk, Stardate 3193.0
We can admit that we’re killers … but we’re not going to kill today. That’s all it takes! ~ Captain James T. Kirk, Stardate 3193.0
1 John 4:18
related cartoon--
by Matt Bors